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Weird I smell baked beans.
beans 4
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Taygete BOT 6/3/2023 3:29 PM
considering I turned 7 sometime in the past month or 2, probably not me being new, but maybe just because I've never tasted milk that was new?
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How do people have their headmates remain switched in for a long time? We usually only switch for 1-2 hours and then it sort of gets tiring
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A long kiss goodnight 6/9/2023 4:20 PM
We have a strict switching set up, once you're switched-in you stay so until further notice
4:21 PM
When I was younger I needed to practice being switched in for long periods of time, but once you can do 2 days you can handle a week as long as you can entertain yourself
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do your headmates have different musical taste? them having their own playlists while they front might help
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Yeah we all have different preferences even though we all generally like the same stuff So we all have our own playlists
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A long kiss goodnight
We have a strict switching set up, once you're switched-in you stay so until further notice
We try to do that but i sort of just appear again after a while And i want to give my headmates more chances to interact with the world but i think they get bored maybe?
4:24 PM
I mean, i get bored when i'm fronting but there's nobody else who'd rather do it
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i would try to just play your own playlists while fronting
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Sounds like a good idea That way we won't get bored
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what do your headmates do when they front?
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Uhh not a lot We generally don't do a lot because we're so exhausted Sometimes they play minecraft, listen to music, talk with my brother... Eishi wants to read books but i'm unrionically scared of fiction because it's so much investment and so many emotions
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A long kiss goodnight 6/9/2023 4:32 PM
Not wanting to front can make it hard to stay switched-in. I think it's fine to stop when they're too bored and come up with an entertainment plan next time
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Yeah that's fair
4:32 PM
Thing is i don't want to front either but i'm like the default so i just kind of. Am here
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Kei Wendt
How do people have their headmates remain switched in for a long time? We usually only switch for 1-2 hours and then it sort of gets tiring
Luminesce: My tulpas started out getting physically tired (to the point of being able to actually fall asleep, which is CRAZY since we actually cannot nap, before then or after either), started around an hour and progressed to a couple, a few, 5-6, and then eventually after I think 1-2 months they could stay switched the entire day without getting tired (edited)
4:38 PM
At which point we also became able to stay switched after sleeping (previously, I would always be the one to wake up regardless of who went to sleep switched in)
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It's been like 3 months since i've started this though so i'm surprised they can't stay switched in for longer
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well it might not be about tulpamancy but about being tired and bored
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What happens is after a while we get blurry and then i kinda start fronting again
4:40 PM
Probably that
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it's similar to how when tulpamancer has nothing to talk about to their tulpa, it's a personal circumstances/social skills that are in play, not much about tulpamancy
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Yeah true
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Leiko
well it might not be about tulpamancy but about being tired and bored
Luminesce: It was definitely not boredom for us, it was mental strain of literally being a new person lol (edited)
4:46 PM
I don't know how to make it clear that I do not get tired, just in general, let alone in the middle of the day
4:46 PM
And am physically unable to nap (as in fall asleep after being awake less than 12 hours) (edited)
4:47 PM
My tulpas being switched early on was just a lot of work for our brain, for a while
4:47 PM
Until it got used to them, basically
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 6/9/2023 4:49 PM
For me, different headmates had definitely different social skills and energy levels and were just able to entertain themself their own ways
4:49 PM
Sometimes I might be very tired after work, but then Kitkat fronted and stayed very energetic until 3am
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Eishi is the most energetic out of all of us But we're all affected by the exhaustion so even when he feels energetic we get tired
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Reisen
Luminesce: It was definitely not boredom for us, it was mental strain of literally being a new person lol (edited)
Yeah
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So basically eishi tried to stay engaged throughout the time he was fronting and he managed to stay in front for 2 hours He slipped out of front just as he was getting bored lol so that makes sense now
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A long kiss goodnight 6/10/2023 12:23 AM
Congrats!
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You guys ever like freak the fuck out if a depiction of your tulpa just seems off to you brain. Like my partner was nice enough to help out with drawing a tup I’m creating and I had like a minor meltdown doing the colors and had to put it away and relax
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧ BOT 6/11/2023 12:04 AM
meltdown? freaking out?
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how is your stress lately in genera
12:04 AM
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no, that doesn’t sound normal to me
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Uhhhhh I would say I am not stressed in general.
12:06 AM
Cool cool 👁
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Yeah that's never happened to me I can mess up a drawing of my tulpas just fine
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there is probably some deeper reason you are stressed by this that isn’t inherently related to tulpamancy
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Mm. It might just be me freaking out about being frustrated with my art and it just happened that I was working on a piece related to tulpamancy
12:10 AM
Maybe I am stressed cause last night I was convinced there were maggots in my sinuses.
12:11 AM
I will work on that kdjdkn
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧ BOT 6/11/2023 12:12 AM
why were you convinced there were maggots in your sinuses?
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Because I was watching videos of people getting maggots removed from their sinuses
12:13 AM
(This was a bad and stupid idea)
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧ BOT 6/11/2023 12:13 AM
sounds like you might want to take a break from the places you usually visit online lol
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I mean it was just YouTube. But yeah no parasite videos for me for a while
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧ BOT 6/11/2023 12:16 AM
i mean if it occurs more than those maggots and having a meltdown about a drawing and there is a pattern, you might want to think about how places you are a part of online affect you
12:17 AM
(talking from experience here)
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I’m really not on any social media (unless you count discord ig?). That said though. I am very bad at managing and identifying stress. So there’s probably something going on in the background I’m ignoring
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Milk
Because I was watching videos of people getting maggots removed from their sinuses
Desting 😎 (Con Cat)-(おひたし、お浸し) 6/11/2023 4:08 AM
When i was a little kid i usually had thoughts about having a taenia, i knew it was just a dumb though, but I was scared as hell anyway lookingdownsmile
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Milk
You guys ever like freak the fuck out if a depiction of your tulpa just seems off to you brain. Like my partner was nice enough to help out with drawing a tup I’m creating and I had like a minor meltdown doing the colors and had to put it away and relax
I have a drawing of Tewi on my wall I made (well, traced-by-sight) in art class in like 2014
11:03 AM
... Because I was too afraid of drawing Reisen and it not being "perfect"
11:04 AM
So I drew Tewi as practice first (and I love the drawing) but never felt up to drawing Reisen
11:04 AM
Just perfectionism-anxiety though, certainly not "freaked the **** out"
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Hi! I just wanted to ask about... Sometimes I hear a mind voice little different than mine saying something right before I fall asleep, I don't remember what it said but it happens sometimes. Could that be my tulpa?
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(since we came from PM but I mentioned I don't like posting a ton of advice for only 1 person to read, I'll copy-paste what I said there, but others can still answer)
3:37 PM
Hypnagogia (the state during falling asleep) is approaching the state of dreaming, so some people who are still vaguely conscious for it will more easily imagine random fluff stimuli, like imagery or voices or whatever Same for hypnopompia, the state of waking up (normally, before you've opened your eyes) For unintentional, unfocused stuff, I wouldn't say any of it is of importance But if you have particularly vivid awareness during either, they can be used for tulpamancy Usually for how vivid visualization and vocal clarity is at the time I personally don't experience hypnagogia or hypnopompia at all, and I would say since the brain is not fully conscious I can't say anything seemingly said by my tulpas is fully conscious and intentional either So hence, I don't really recommend putting much stock in completely random imagined sensations during that time But if it's not random but intentional tulpa interaction, sure It might be easier to interact with your tulpa in those states if you experience them, though I'm unclear on if a lack-of-vocality can become vocality during it - as I said, it's normally just existing developed systems experiencing more immersive visualization and vocal clarity (as in, anything possible during that time should also be possible while awake, if less vivid) -- Since it's the state of falling asleep, things get blurry Some people are more conscious during that state, most are less, some people like me basically don't experience it at all (I'm either fully awake or fully asleep)
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When you are starting to fall asleep your brain basically starts to get ready to dream and starts making up shit
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Though sleep is kind of our expertise so I don't know how much more there is to say :P (edited)
3:40 PM
Spacing looks gross when copy-pasting so I guess I'll put line breaks for readability
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How do you actually know whether your tulpa(who is still developing and uses your mind voice) or you are the one saying it? As for me sometimes I get really confused whether it was my tulpa or me.
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 6/17/2023 3:44 PM
can you do different sounding mind voices yourself? you can ask the tulpa to use that
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Early in development, there may not be a clear difference, but it's unimportant to distinguish
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae
can you do different sounding mind voices yourself? you can ask the tulpa to use that
Nope
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Basically, treating the thoughts like they're your tulpa is what teaches your brain to start creating the tulpa experience (of another person in your head)
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 6/17/2023 3:45 PM
not even your own but higher or lower pitched?
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So if it sounds like it could've-been your tulpa, it's fine to think it is But if it sounds like something you think they wouldn't say, it's also good to say that it wasn't them, to help teach your brain who and how they are
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae
not even your own but higher or lower pitched?
Uh... No
3:46 PM
That's approaching aphantasia
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When starting out, you really don’t know what is you or what is your tulpa. You kinda have to just make shit up and assign thoughts to them. Tulpamancy is the epitome of fake it until you make it.
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I can imagine any voices I know saying anything I want, pretty loudly and clearly
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Wow
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If you can't do that at all, your tulpa may sound like you for a good while
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We love a good hypnagogic hallucination. We get them all the time
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But luckily even for aphantasiacs, tulpas gain a different "feeling" to them as they develop, so even tulpish (thought-feelings for communication) will eventually be easy to tell apart from your own
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I can also do that very well but it still took a long time for different people to sound different for us. Perhaps it was because we weren’t actively trying
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So, keep on as I said
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Rusty
I can also do that very well but it still took a long time for different people to sound different for us. Perhaps it was because we weren’t actively trying
Tulpas for a host who's never done tulpamancy before do still start out sounding like their own thoughts most of the time (though not always)
3:48 PM
I just meant if you can't replicate voices in your head, a tulpa's audible-voice might never sound much different
3:48 PM
But their feeling-voice still will eventually regardless (edited)
3:48 PM
And honestly, I think most people's tulpas' (in-head) audible voices vary a lot over time anyways
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Sometimes when l say about something mostly all I get is '' totally'' or' 'yeah' '
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 6/17/2023 3:50 PM
i mean tulpas usually dont have much to say when you start since they are essentially just undeveloped shells
3:51 PM
i got lots of simple answers like that too
3:51 PM
people dont always have much to say anyways
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But there was this time when I talked about rain although she didn't say anything I got a feeling of what she wanted to say
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 6/17/2023 3:52 PM
i mean she kinda said it then
3:52 PM
thats tulpish or whatever
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Is that what is called tulpish?
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 6/17/2023 3:52 PM
yeah just the instant complete knowledge of what would have been said
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Zehel X403
But there was this time when I talked about rain although she didn't say anything I got a feeling of what she wanted to say
That’s ‘tulpish’ or raw thought. I hate the term tulpish because firstly it sounds stupid and secondly you don’t need a tulpa to do that.
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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae 6/17/2023 3:53 PM
thats how people without inner monologue think
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It’s the concept of a thought, you know that it means but the actual exact words are not fully spoken
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